Using your cortex

If someone throw a stone at you, can you not feeling angry? ur autonomic response will be, palpitation, flushing, tremor ,sweating and u feel like throwing back the rock at the person back.But that is reflex mechanism in which information is processed very fast, via spinal chord and doesnt pass thru the cortex.That is what happen in real life situation. People feel angry when someone provoke us and we feel like wanna give exactly the same amount as what he/she did to us so tat it'll become fair and square. 1+1=2.happy, end of story. But having reflex just like tat, arent we so primitive?just like animal, unable to control our own instict.whenever hungry, ill eat,if im sleepy , ill sleep, whenever i feel want to pee, ill pee.How bout the cortex that Allah had given to us. Issit just by conicidence it is there? Why not use it once in a while.?Coz that what distinguses human and animal, we have some control over our instict via our cortex .Bersabar is one of the way to exercise your cortex.Rather than venting your anger towards life, we need to bersabar on things happened.Yeah, life can be ugly somtimes but being sooo angry all the time doesnt make it better either.However, its ok to get loose once a while.Not everyone has the same kesabaran , but i believe ,we all can learn how to if you have a strong intention to.I hope i also can do this too.Ya Allah, kuatkanlah jiwa ku ya Allah, dalam menghadapai ketentuan hidupmu..Kau telah pon berjanji dalam Al-Quran bahawa, tiada satu pun dugaan dunia ini yg tidak mampu hamba Mu tanggung.Jadi, mengikut janjiMU,aku mampu mengharungi dugaan ini dengan kiizinan Mu.Maka, jadikanlah aku dikalangan hamba Mu yang bersabar..amin..